The terrible regret of an atheist after his physical death

I would like to ask You.
In the course of my life I have learned to gain as a believer a lot of respect for atheists. It is a way of life with many qualities. The easy judgment of believers about atheists is superficial and unjustified.
Well, after all, all judging is wrong so to speak.
Now my question: they do miss the insights and trust provided by a belief in eternal life and when they are deceased, they discover that they have made a mistake and have denied Your existence in their lives. Would You like to comment on this?

I will do so.

Let's describe the life of such a person.
I now consciously present a man, because there are more atheist men than women. Even in emancipated countries, women are listening a little bit more to their intuition, the signals from their hearts and are more capable than men to not just glory on their own minds. But of course there are also many atheist women, that’s for sure.

Before death

We are talking about the true life of an atheist man. He was a good person on earth, someone who looked after his fellow man. He loved his wife, who died years earlier than he did, he has long and sincerely grieved as a widower and at the same time he has picked up the thread of life well. He loved his two children, his work, his hobbies. He was interested in politics and literature and especially concerned with the degradation of nature. He was a champion of the care for nature. I recall this especially for, partly because of this, he passed on to eternal life consciously and quietly so to speak thanks to great achievements in the field of love and care for something other than himself. And it helped that he had no dramatic addictions. Actually a beautiful person.

But be aware of the dog.

We put aside why he has become an avid atheist, that is the subject for another blog, if  ever. But he was an atheist and he relied very much on his own thinking more than on that of others.
We go back to two incidents in his life, two striking moments, which after his death will make a big contribution to his bitter feelings of regret. Because that is the subject of this blog, the regrets after the death of an atheist person.

Incident 1

His wife dies after a long and painful sickbed. The bone cancer caused his wife very severe suffering. When she dies, he sits at her bed and has great grief, he is overwhelmed by her suffering and struggles very much with the thought that she has ceased to exist. He is angry with life and fate. Her suffering was too much for him to handle and it will take years before he has given place to this suffering.

Incident 2

His (their) eldest son finally finds after many years of searching the job of his life and treats his father and sister to a dinner party. The dinner is very nice and the three of them celebrate the love and warmth that is between them and celebrate the joy about the great career opportunity for the son. The father suffers greatly in the absence of his deceased wife and sighs at a certain moment how regrettable it is that their mother can not be present. Both children react with compassion because they do not want to push the atmosphere because of his musing. In general, young people are better in coming to terms with death than older people. And in addition, they both take into account the possibility that their mother will experience it somehow. They are both not ecclesiastical but are no conscious atheists, they believe something.

After death

After his death, the man passes on consciously. His big heart, his love for life, his healthy and beautiful lifestyle without addictions make the passing over almost effortless. And not, as many atheists have to face, ending up in a coma-like existence in which, as if in a dream state, they slowly become accustomed (with much help) to the fact that there is life after death. Because this does not fit into their opinions and is therefore denied. What is man master in not wanting to see what is still there.
This adaptation phase to something that does not fit into their "opinions of life" can take sometimes quite a while.
So our man is very soon clear in the head and deeply deeply deeply surprised as soon as  the most beautiful and younger version of his dear wife stands for him and embraces him with love and with the greatest smile possible. He can handle it anyway because he always had an open heart and an open mind, except for this after death thing.
After some time in which his wife may act as a supervisor and guide, he may look back on the two events mentioned above. This retrospective is very important because he is deeply suffering from intense regret that he denied a so intensely important fact of life,  namely not only the existence of life after death, but even more the existence of God and Its work in man's life. on earth. In order to properly judge his intense feelings of regret and to give them a place, he must experience these important incidents, but then as it really went and not as he thought it was.

Incident 1

He gets it presented in this way.
His wife passes on very consciously, partly through her intense agony, and makes contact with her spiritual coach immediately and without being surprised and is confirmed in almost everything she already expected: a beautiful liberation, a healthy spiritual body, a wonderful new life of space, freedom and happiness and a great sense of the meaning of everything or at least of the even beautiful consequences of this terrible fate at the end of her life. She tries to reach, comfort and support her husband in the entire period afterwards and of course she succeeds very well, only without the man himself realizing this and knowing this.
When he is confronted with how it really went, his suffering and regret are so big that it almost becomes too much for him. He sees all the efforts of his deceased wife and how he neglects, ignores and denies them. He sees the helplessness of his wife when she stands beside him on an evening when he is overwhelmed with grief and loneliness, and experiences such a terrible regret that he did not want and could not experience all of this. It will take him many years in spiritual life before he can look at this stubborn atheistic ignorance without deep shame and with more understanding and love.

Incident 2

On the evening of this dinner, his wife is present in the spirit, shares in their joy and sees that both children do not suffer too much from her absence and somewhere unconsciously feel that she is there. Her absence during the dinner because of her death a long time ago does not really bother them. But her husband. Ah, his pain and sorrow for this delusion that she is not allowed to experience this, while she stands beside him and looks down on him. She touches his forehead with her hand, but this again magnifies his image that his wife, so intensely reminded by this touch, is not there. Physically and emotionally she seems present, but he cherishes his thinking that she is dead and he is suffering very much from this realization.
So in this review after his death he sees the grief in the eyes of his wife, who does everything to make herself known, and sees his rigid and untrue world of thought. His regret is especially overwhelming concerning this incident.

We can complete this gripping and true story. Eventually he overcomes this regret in the spirit, starts seeing that his atheism has brought a lot of good as well and eventually becomes reconciled with everything that has happened. Also with his virulent atheism on earth.

But at times, in eternity, his ignorance and delusional wisdom and the missed opportunity on earth to live together with his wife in the spirit even after her death will overwhelm him now and then. Be let it be, what can not be erased.
He is blessed.

My blessings to you all

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A miracle in my personal life (Law of mercy, miracles, 5)

Many years ago, at my sister's request, I went to take drive lessons. She wanted to pay a part of my lessons. I had helped her and her children when her husband died of cancer.
I was very bad in driving lessons, but my instructor insisted after 33 lessons that I would give a try for an exam just for experience. But when I made in the last lesson just before the exam five capital mistakes, he admitted when I checked him out, that he was afraid that the exam would be broken up or even that I should crash his car. At the same time, his best student did exam as well, and we knew together who would succeed and who did not. I would do my best to let the exam not be broken up by my great incompetence.

I have to tell that my mother had told me that she would pray for me and afterwards she said she had prayed to my deceased brother-in-law that he had to help me because I had done so much for his wife and young children . But I did not know that. By the way my diseased brother-in-law was a very good and solid driver.

The night before, I had an dramatic nightmare, as well, about the exam and it went terribly. In short, everything did not look well for me.

The moment I took a seat next to the examiner, I got overwhelmed by a great peace of mind. I drove excellently, did the checking of the mirrors during driving as I never had  done before, and I even told the nightmare to the examiner while driving. It was like I did not drive for myself but was driven by a very experienced and good driver. I was very surprised, didn’t understand anything of this all and succeeded gloriously for my exam. My instructor could not believe it, certainly not when it appeared that his best student had failed completely. I am still astonished when I remember this. Of course, I've become a good driver, but during the first few months I have been driving full attention and in quiet areas.

My son, it's very simple. You were completely overshadowed by your brother-in-law, who had special permission to intervene. You deserved the succeeding, and your brother-in-law was, once went to a higher level, recalled by your mother's prayers. He was very pleased to be able to do something for you, you who had assisted his sad wife and young children with so much love and you distracted them a lot with your humour.

Not every deceased person is capable of doing this, but your brother-in-law possessed already great spiritual qualities, hence everything went smoothly.
Your brother-in-law is blessed.

My blessings to you all

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Vasil' Hopko (Slovak hero, 3)

Would You like to say something about the life of Bishop Hopko?

I love to, because Vasil 'Hopko has been a loyal and very brave man. All his life he has been  influenced by the spirits of faith and courage and love for Christ.

He was tortured and poisoned by the Communists, while he remained true to his faith. He refused to betray his oath of allegiance to Rome. He was especially filled with the desire to endure the trial, which was not to be endured by the Apostle Peter in his early years: to remain faithful to Christ in great danger of his own live.

For this is what Vasil'Hopko felt when he was pressed in prison to betray his oath to Rome, to betray his oath to the Catholic Church, to betray his oath to Christ. Vasil'Hopko persevered  under the most dreadful tortures. He has been tortured severely during a whole year, without yielding. And in his later prison years he was poisoned with arsenic, after which he has never been the same, but he has always remained faithful. And the Slovak people knew this and also by his example, they could keep one’s spirits up to continue to believe, despite everything. Bishop Hopko has by his courage nourished and supported faith in (Tjecho-) Slovakia.

He has suffered in his youth as well by the early death of his father and the departure of his mother to America in search of work. Oh, what did he crave for the love of his mother. What he has forsaken in the decision to become a priest in stead of following his mother to America! But a miracle happened: he had just decided with all his health problems to stay in Slovakia becoming priest, or his health problems disappeared like snow in the sun. This was one of the miracles he experienced in his earthly life.

So early he has forsaken his ego, his personal life, his intimate desires to serve the church, to serve Christ, to serve God.

After his imprisonment he has for four years campaigned for acceptance of the Greek-Catholic Church and was allowed for eight years to work for the rebuilding of the church. He did this with all the love and strength he had *, **.
Vasil'Hopko is very blessed.

My blessings to you all

* After his death he has been beatified.

**Bishop Hopko made his own the words of Bishop Gojdic:  "For me, it is not important if I die in the Bishop's Palace or in prison; what matters is entering into Paradise".

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God does not ignore the calls of the weak

Bible: Psalms‏@BIBLE_Psalms "[God] does not ignore the calls of the weak" - Psalm 9:12 (please retweet) Retweet by F.Andries Oosterveen

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It is not in the destiny of you all to already get all the evidence We are really doing this. Once the time will come every man and woman on earth will know this is so. Meanwhile this is demonstrated again and again by thousands of books, spiritual experiences, “psychic” observations, special dreams and stories of saints and mystics. We do not ignore the calls of the weak. We hear the weak and always get going with their desperate pleas for help. Do you have eyes to see and ears to hear? See and hear then.

The spiritual world gives this example, but it is illustrative for all suffering and weak people.

Consider a woman born in the patriarchal Somalia. As a young woman she is married off to an older, ugly and unjust man just because he has more cows than the other men. In her wedding night, ignorant as she is, she is raped, gets pregnant, gets child after child. She cares for her family (five children, two of which died too early) with too little support and freedom. She dies illiterate and beaten by her husband, too early, exhausted as mother and exploited as woman. Earthy and evolutionary seen "she did it well", she was successful with her three children, two boys and a girl. She has proved to be of great value to her husband, provided him two male children, and a healthy daughter.

"God does not ignore the calls of the weak"

Her whole life long she is helped by Us, in thousands of ways. Speaking humanly it was an unjust and unhappy life, as a woman and as wife. But the spiritual world has ensured that she first of all got the strength to accomplish her life and secondly would and could survive spiritually after her physical death.

Two examples of the endless ways of assistance from the spiritual world are presented here. One example is concerning the most difficult moment in her life, the other one shows what happened soon after her physical death.

• In the evening she is sitting at the bedside of her dead daughter. A mother does not distinguish between her children, but this seven-year-old girl was the apple of her eye and showed many traits of her deceased grandmother (the mother of the woman). This little girl had already shown a worldly wisdom and understanding which touched and supported her mother. The girl died of meningitis, and has in two weeks changed from a healthy and happy girl in a corpse. The mother is deadly tired and beaten by her grief for her eldest daughter. Her deceased mother “is standing behind her”, who has remained with her throughout this period and prays for strength and support. Her guardian angel is bent over her and both hands of the angel are resting on the head of the woman. Through this hands flows into the woman the energy of courage, perseverance and hope. Her soul and her "My God" are deliberating in the background what steps will be taken to carry her through the coming days. This is always “personalized service”. The spirit of the night is summoned to give her a deep sleep, then she will have a conversation with her deceased mother and her guardian angel. They will show her a picture of the spiritual atmosphere in which her deceased daughter “landed”. In this atmosphere, the purest personalities, with a big heart and with much love, will guide her daughter in the years to come on behalf of her further spiritual development. She will grow up there. The mother will be told her daughter will get permission to visit and assist her on for the mother important and difficult moments. The woman will wake up and remember nothing (that is on earth not yet meant to be), but in her heart she will feel the impact of this nocturnal visit. She will be amazed how quiet and resigned her emotional life appears to be, given the desperation she felt the night before.
• The woman died early, but was able to accompany her children to adulthood. She was 45 years old. She died alone in the night, while her husband was lying with one of his other women, even though he was already 77 years. (In another blog, we will further describe the spiritual life of her husband after his death). The woman is worn out, exhausted and has led a life of dependency, lack of freedom and lack of opportunities, at the same time being much smarter than her husband. Just before she dies she is seeing in the corner of the hut her deceased mother and an unknown creature (her guardian angel). She rises from her dead body. Because she lived purely and had no addictions to possessions, drugs, or cares for too young children she finds herself in a soft, radiant and healing white light. She bursts into tears when her mother embraces her. Her mother has developed spiritually and has the appearance of a mature woman with a touch of an angel. The woman has always believed in Allah and the spiritual world and is amazed how natural everything appears to be. She is touched and comforted, and is feeling unreal free. Her energy is rapidly growing and her mother and her guardian angel have brought her to her own private residence (important for her.) It's looking like the nicest hut of her village, with windows overlooking nature familiar to her, she is seeing flowers, is smelling soft fragrances and is hearing birds singing. This setting has been chosen deliberately because the woman never came somewhere else. She only knew her hut and her village. Actually she lived like a slave. The coming period both spiritual beings will cherish her until she will be completely "recovered" and will have put aside all her old physical experiences, and will have processed them and released. By certain energetic forces she will be totally cleansed, treated and cured of all her painful earthly experiences. Pretty soon she got a brief visit from her two deceased children, now grown up in the spirit to young adults. Especially the visit of her deceased daughter, now a mature strong spiritual personality has deeply touched her and helped her in her recovery. She is perfectly happy. She gets support to start thinking freely about her future and expresses her wish to learn. She never received any education, has never learned to read and write and she has died with this intense wish. And this is what she is going to do, the coming period, with like-minded people, with respect for her femininity. And with her intelligence she will in spiritual schools of education pursue a long course of education and after all she will be a teacher herself. What is quite regular in the Western world, is for this Somali woman heaven. Eventually everything has really worked out.

This is a true story and all weak will be supported in this way.

"God does not ignore the calls of the weak"

My blessings to you all

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