Children are messengers of happiness and grief (Alice Miller, 4)

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My son, like guardian angels are messengers of the spiritual world, so is the hidden child in man the messenger of what has been of happiness and sorrow. And as guardian angels are always messengers of healing, even though the message is sometimes painful, in the same way the child in man is also a messenger of healing, even though it is painful. The truth will set you free.

And the more the child in man is seen and cherished and cared for and welcomed and the more man is talking to that child and the more the child is listened to by that person, the closer healing will be nearby.

And know that when an adult talks to a child in his surroundings, that automatically the hidden and perhaps oppressed child from within will waken up and gets closer to the heart and becomes more likely to be discovered.

Oh child in the surroundings, what a blessing can you be for the grown up man!

Oh man, associate with children, even every now and then!

The child in every man is blessed.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all, My children

 

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Sorrow from the past may influence the future (Alice Miller, 3)

“The more we idealized the past, however, and refuse to acknowledge our childhood sufferings, the more we pass them on unconsciously to the next generation.” *

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The child in man’s life is enormously manifest in the present and determines much of behaviour, especially the unconscious behaviour. And in big decisions, in extreme difficulties and at important moments, the child determines in man more than the reasonable person realizes.

And this child in man is, as Alice Miller has described, in fact always violated, treated unfairly, disappointed in the adults or infected by a parent.

And this mistreated child determines in fact the decisions of man, so to speak more than man realizes. For example, some adults never acquire a partner, or end up in a life of addictions or depression,  precisely by this hidden suffering child in them. And only if man accepts and feels compassion for this suffering child, one can go on. And what most people do is draw a veil over their childhood. And thus continue to carry a greater burden lifelong , with more influence on their lives than necessary.

And God does not argue to send everybody in therapy. A good therapy may lead man to his own abused child. But a nice encounter, a clear dream, a open-minded person, an insight, intense prayers or a deep relationship with God may be supportive as well. Man may start to love  that little hidden child in the inner self. And many things can be solved then and healed.

Alice Miller may be blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Alice Miller, For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence

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Addiction is a plight that must be understood (Alice Miller,2)

“What is addiction, really? It is a sign, a signal, a symptom of distress. It is a language that tells us about a plight that must be understood.” Alice Miller*

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This is indeed what God is seeing as well. The suffering, the despair, the disappointment, the worries, the grief that hide behind addictions. And often, not always, it is the cause of addictions. Therefore, mankind and its addictions are considered by the spiritual world with love and without judgment.

Addictions are severely condemned by mankind and are indeed corrupt and streets coming to a dead end. But God sees the backgrounds and sees what eventually will lead to life experience and insight. God does not even judge the behaviour, not even the effects of addictions, not even the addict himself. It is useless and leads to nothing. But understanding of the hidden causes, understanding of the inability of the addicted and loving care of these men in need are cherished by God.

Alice Miller has made her life work on this subject and has done so with great wisdom, much love and much psychological knowledge. Her work is a blessing for mankind.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Breaking Down the Wall of Silence: The Liberating Experience of Facing Painful Truth

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Pentecost, another blessing from eternity

My God, I have had such a great experience, the love of the spiritual world, the  emotion about how we are helped, my heart filled with Your love, the atmosphere between people, it seems around Pentecost as if more love and contact is possible between men.

Pentecost is one of the highlights of Christian society. Everyone is greatly blessed by the Mother God, even men who do not know what Pentecost is meaning. You all are hit in the heart, it is a big happening and many people feel it.

You are feeling it and many with you. Even though many people have stopped going to church, God continues to come with Its Blessings and the greatest is the blessing of Pentecost. A period of days of intense blessing that descend on all of you especially on Sunday and with great strength.

The Mother's Blessing. The love of God. Your heart filled with pure energy of compassion and love. Feel blessed. Be blessed. You are blessed.

 
My blessings to you all

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