Psychiatry, suicide and life after death

Recently we had in the Netherlands a program on TV on a woman who suffered from psychiatric problems so much she jumped of a high building. She had well prepared her suicide. Would You like to comment on this? Not specially her situation, but the life of a psychiatric patient. And how they are taken care of after their death?

That's all right.
From Our perspective everything is very simple.
Everything will be all right, sooner or later.
And even the most difficult life will be smoothed in the eternal life. A bad start is just a bad start. Nothing more. Every life is guided in love, received in love, and guided further on in love. But let's start at the beginning.

The evolution is accompanied by trial and error, with genetic defects and genetic successes. And sometimes a defect is leading to a great success.
Psychiatry can be for a major part a genetic defect. Woe to the man to whom this happens. It is usually differing from the human environment. A lifelong struggle, a life-long loneliness, a life-long suffering. But this can be accompanied by great talents in the field of art, or science, or spirituality. So the suffering of such a man is not just suffering, it can also mean an unprecedented wealth in other areas. And it's never boring.

Psychiatry may also result from extreme concentration on oneself, and because of this the inner development is characterized by wallowing in own thoughts or feelings, without any openness to the other.
Psychiatry may also result from extreme concentration on the other, and because of this one never gets to a personal inner development, this is often accompanied by feelings of guilt, imbalance and a proliferation of negative thoughts and feelings. Often a dominant parent or a rigid religion is to be blamed.
Psychiatry can also be caused by extreme sensitivity, by using drugs at a young age and leaks in the aura, which are most of the time not going to be cured (on earth).

Psychiatry may also happen because one has experienced more than one can handle, this is the case in sexual abuse in childhood or violence in wartimes.

Thousand causes, thousand forms of psychiatry, thousands of combinations of genetic defects, personal vulnerabilities and environmental factors.
Sometimes a psychiatric disorder is curable or stabilized,  with medicines or love or good coaching or self insight.

But more importantly, when one with or without suicide, is arriving in the spiritual world, one is received lovingly. Very lovingly, because this person has suffered enough. And the process is in general, there are exceptions, as follows.

• One always arrives in a state of great despair, in extreme feelings, one is often totally confused. One is brought to a calming environment, calming according to a person's character, with silence or in nature, or in a nice room. One is put into sleep, in a state of unconsciousness or sedation, as an anesthesiologist calls it. There may be calming scents or colors or music. Not every psychiatric patient is in a wild state, but with calming is meant: one is creating outside influences at all energetic levels of the personality, spiritually, mentally, emotionally and energetically,  really making whole, really healing. In this short or longer period spiritual coaches are supporting the healing process through their presence and conversations. Deceased relatives or friends can be allowed to make a visit ìf this is supporting the process.
• After this period one is taken to The Temple of Healing where one will be healed completely. It's that simple. Healed completely. By an energetic radiation the old psychiatric character structure is completely transformed into a healthy character structure letting intact the features, qualities and personal interests as much as possible. This is always accompanied by loss of certain distinctive features associated with the psychiatric disorder. That's a real loss, but simply flip side of the coin. But because one is no longer suffering after the transformation, it can be easily accepted.
• The spiritual guidance of the persons after a transformation is very intense and necessary. One is in fact supported to explore a new inner landscape. It looks most like going to live abroad. It is really getting used to it, but one is motivated. The transformation is always based on the consent of the personality. A small proportion of psychiatric patients refuses this transformation because they are still attached to their old sorrows. These people need a longer preparation time, but eventually all opt for this healing.
• The final phase will start, when one can continue the path of life in sanity, like other people. The period of transition from a psychiatric patient , whether or not after a suicide, takes place between ( earthly time ) one month to one year.
  

So all will be all right. And this may be said: the entire energetic healing is available to all men, sooner or later. What awaits you in the end, even criminals and rapists, is grand,  hopeful, unprecedented and special. You all can trust on this for 100%. Therefore, it would be good if all those who are going to deal with physical defects, limitations and deadly diseases would focus on this promise. They should become mentally young again, like children. Because what one can expect after death is even finer and more beautiful than how a frisky young child looks at life.
Full of joy , promise and significance. Please you all, rejoice in it!

My blessings to you all

 

The spur of the moment or the room of the here and now

 

 The ego lives in the spur of the moment , the personality in the room of the here and now.

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The last few days I was kind of struggling quite a bit and suddenly I realized I was drawing conclusions, I was too much saddled with my ego, muddling along the past and the future. I had little room for the here and now, the here and now seemed to be a dull experience.
And this phrase came to me, Yours of course?

What is not Mine?
I have inspired you this phrase to provide you some more perspective. You realized then you were muddling in the outer shell of man where the external world, the past and the future are gloriously doing their thing. And I wanted you to make contact again with your inner self, to reconnect again with the silence, with room, with appreciating the here and now, with accepting everything is as it is.

The ego lives in the spur of the moment

The ego always experiences everything absolutely and grotesquely . The currently prevailing negative emotions are experienced as truth. One is feeling the past as burden or is having fear for the future. Often this is accompanied by uncertainty, anxiety, worrying or anger. The spiritual world is not opposed to the ego. On the contrary. It is a beautiful instrument, a earthy instrument, a transition state between beast and spirit, a tool for evolution. How couldn’t We not cherish it?
But the ego for itself thinks it is more than a tool, it wants to sit on her throne and imagines itself to be the center of the cosmos. But that's not the case, and it can’t  cope so much power. The misery of life is to a large extent on it’s account.
The ego makes the prevailing emotion at that time to issues of eternity, to absolute greatness. And this does not correspond with reality. It is a delusional attitude. It is an illusion. It is untrue.

“The personality in the room of the here and now”

The personality is a tool as well, but of greater importance. In man, where the personality is in control God is on the throne, or life itself, or the sake of nature, or the public interest. The inner life of this man is characterized by tolerance, love, room, there is no judgment. There is no struggling and one is not interfering with good and evil, with beauty and ugliness, with sympathy and uncongeniallity. In the room of the here and now the beautiful and delicate is valued, cherished and enjoyed. The ugly, difficult and negative is accepted as part of life.

One says yes to everything, on is giving love to everything, one is giving attention to everything. One thinks the past to be interesting but not prescribing. One let the past go. One finds the future inspiring but debatable. One is leaving the future to be the future. One does not know. The present is getting room, the here and now is full and interesting and full of opportunities and insights, full of acceptance and love. One is listening to the inner self and appreciates the outer world. One does not experience any dichotomy. It is a attitude of openness. It is insight. It's true.

My advice to you all is: you can not serve two masters. If you are dwelling too much in the ego, please remember then your inner self. Step out of the rotating wheel of the ego into the silence of the axle, into the peace of your inner self. Into the true heart of man. Where God is waiting.

My blessings to you all

Do not judge the universe (Dalai Lama)

 


The Quote‏@thequote I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe. - Dalai Lama

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Why don't you try it for yourself?
Oh yes please.
There is a Jewish story about a wise man , who had two sacks in his coat , in each of them a piece of paper. When he felt well and when he was happy with life, he took that piece of paper out of his pocket, on which was written : "Dust you are and to dust you shall return ." So for himself he remembered in this manner all the good he experienced wasn’t that obvious.

And when he was weighed down by the difficulties of life, he took the other piece of paper out of his pocket, on which was written: " The world has been made ​​for man," for mustering up courage on the moment.

And now for me: I try to remember in my difficult moments it’s part of the deal, it all may be as it is. I shouldn’t draw conclusions out of the moment of difficulty. I should say yes to live, just accept everything in the here and now.
And in my beautiful moments enjoying them meanwhile it is my intention to remember these beautiful moments for the hard moments.

And by trying this all,  I want to learn to say yes to everything in life, say yes to everything . But I am very unhappy how often I manage it. Something like that.

Do not be too hard on yourself . Keep practicing .
But this is it. Finding hope in dark moments and paying attention to the beautiful moments . And equally accepting them all, saying yes to them all. And as the Dalai Lama is saying this so beautiful, the universe not judging for this.
No judging, no drawing conclusions, not being mad at God. Not thinking all the beautiful things in your life are your own achievement. Who can say how everything happened and how lucky one can be? In short, leave everything .
But there is something else .

“I find hope in the darkest of days, and focus in the brightest. I do not judge the universe”

This attitude will

• reduce the inner struggle
• channel spiritual energy to better deeds in life
• make the ego smaller
• make the personality grow
• bring inner peace to you
• bring you closer to God

 Isn’t this hopeful, for keeping you practice?

May the Dalai Lama blessed for this.

 

May you all be blessed

On inner freedom (Eleanor Roosevelt)

 


☀Pinky Mthembu☀™‏@sistawithbooty30 jul. "@SheQuotes: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt http://bit.ly/dsBACc #quote #SQN"

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Man is the guardian of his inner self . There is total freedom, there the free will is reigning, there the ability to be happy and to be God is prevailing. There one can be complete master of his own universe.
But why is this happening too little?
Let's examine mankind.

Because one

• as a child is letting in everyone
• has started to believe another may determine everything inside: a parent, a pastor, a partner, a teacher, a guru
• has forgotten one can choose
• has let the interior to be determined by the external world
• has let the free will be influenced by others
• the will and the opinions and judgments of others are internalized
• and because a thousand other reasons.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."

This tweet is radiating so much hope and strength and individuality and choice and inspiration and future.
There is another possible path, the path of the new man, the path of the personality, the path of God in man. The path of true faith.
And one may follow this path of autonomy, from the ego to the personality, from outside to inside and from the other to oneself,  with the help of the following questions and insights and steps:

Questions:

• What do I want?
• What does the other want from me?
• Why do I feel insecure by this or that?

Insights :

• Another person can not determine my life
• Another person is not allowed to make me feel small
• The opinion of man is only the issue of the day.

Steps:

• Repeat this tweet every day
• Remember for yourself every day your pure existence is enough. No one on earth has to opine something concerning you
• Every day saying to yourself: the opinion of God is more important to me than the opinion of man. ( PS : the last step only if one is familiar with a loving God, for otherwise it will work contra productive, smile) .

My blessings to you all

Is it really a problem?

The Golden Mirror‏@TheGoldenMirror "Sometimes it's only a problem when you consider it to be one"

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A problem is always considered as difficult, unwanted, painful, as a crisis.
That is logical and understandable.

But from Our perspective it looks differently.
Because crisis literally means judgment phase.
So an opportunity to reassess life, to change life, to break through old patterns, to reach for new chances.
And that "sometimes" is disputable.
A problem is always an opportunity, a chance, a challenge, an important moment in a lifetime.

The spiritual world is watching with attention and with  interest man on earth, who is confronted with a problem. The spiritual world stands by of course with all the necessary support.

But not the problem is meaningful in the spiritual world, even though there are earthly and spiritual reasons for the manifesting of the problem.
What really counts is the responding of man on earth to this problem.

Is one responding as a weeping victim or with a courageous attitude?
Is one responding with increasing the problem or with solving it?
is one responding with bothering fellowmen or with preparing for a bold solution?
In short, is one responding unconsciously and immaturely or is one responding spiritually and wisely?

“Sometimes it's only a problem when you consider it to be one”

It seems to be so casually said about someone being in big troubles, yet the truth is this: the saints and sages of the world all say at the end of their life "that all was well".
And all immature men are equally blessed. They are supported and coached with the same big love.

My blessings to you all

Even a mediocre life can become wondrous (Pope Francis)

 

 

Pope Francis‏@Pontifex

Dear young people, let us not be satisfied with a mediocre life. Be amazed by what is true and beautiful, what is of God!

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Pope Francis is right.
Every moment a mediocre life can be uplifted to great heights by one’s own will , one’s own insight and new hope. There is a lot of truth and beauty on earth. And when man is watching this all,  new hope, new insights and a new respect for life , for mankind, for Mother earth will arise.
And all this beauty and trueness are stemming from God, from God alone. God is handing it all, even to those people who do not believe in God. As much.

Everything is from God. How else could it be ? Have a combination of six atoms, the emergence of a bacterium, the evolution of life really begun by itself? Yes By Itself, by God Itself.

Pope Francis is appealing to young people . And I say: dear people , all of you , not only young people , you all, you may uplift your life above the mediocrity with new hope and new insights.

Oh glorious life , oh wondrous power of energy , oh mankind, cherish your eternity , oh mediocre life, turn your gaze upwards. Be a God in your thoughts. And God will express Itself in your deeds. For all of you , even just before you are dying, this opportunity will arise.
And if it does not happen: all the mediocre lives are lovingly cherished by God and will received in love by the spiritual world. Because every road is a way to God , even a detour. And every mediocre life will be an extraordinary life once, sooner or later, before or after the physical death.

It can not be otherwise.

My blessings to you all

In new times new strength and new thoughts are coming

She Quotes ‏@SheQuotes  "With the new day comes new strength and new thoughts." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

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In new times new strength and new thoughts are coming.
It has always been in this way and it always will be in this way.
Because the spiritual world is keeping a finger on the pulse.
In times of stagnation and abuse of power the spirits of courage and change are sent.

In times of revolution and agitation the spirits of conservation and subtlety are sent.
In times of violence and war the spirits of love and gentleness are sent.
In times of prosperity and wealth the spirits of innovation and inspiration are sent.
In these new times of turmoil, pollution and overpopulation the spirit of simplicity and spirit of respect for Mother Earth have arrived.

For God, the spiritual world, the spirit of Mother Earth and the spirit of humanity are working closely with the sole purpose: the evolution of life on earth, from temporary to eternal, from earthly vale of tears to planet of Light and Love .

My blessings to you all