Some days you just have to create your own sunshine

 
My God, can I ask you?
Lately I had a conversation with a sister who had experienced a lot and who is happy with life at the same time and she said to me, "It's not about the big story, the big things. In that respect, everyone is experiencing terrible things. When it comes to it, you have to get lucky from the little things, a cup of coffee, a nice conversation, working in the garden, little things which can be in your life arranged by yourself. "
It struck me, would You like to comment on this?

My son, true words of a woman grown wise by life.

How can it be otherwise? When a person let his luck depend on the big things, there is always something, a disease, a loss, a problem. Which person will pass the dynamic life on earth without harm?

But a cup of coffee can always be arranged, or refurbishing a corner of your house, or a nice meeting with a dear friend or oh there are thousands of things within easy reach of man. But one has to give leeway to these small things and not be overwhelmed by the suffering because of the big issues. In the here and now, the fully and unconditionally admitting of the small stuff, trying to choose for the beauty of life, only then happiness will get a chance, not otherwise.

And then one more thing: you have found a saying to which I have led you. Because there are days that the suffering and the difficulties seem too big to put them aside, and then one can only undergo everything. That "some days" thus is referring to if there is only a chance to resist in your difficulties, it is to man to grab his opportunity. At least that day, one has experienced some luck. And a wise man makes from some days every day, but that's a bigger task.

Your sister is blessed.
 
My blessings to you all

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What we like to avoid brings us the most (Jean de la Fontaine, Lao Tze)

Baca Notes‏@TheBacaJourney “Often a person meets his destiny on the road he tried to avoid”.~ Jean de la Fontaine

My God, would You like to comment on this tweet?

Because of your situation you people don’t have the outline, the insight and understanding We are having. And this is part of the plan, because therefore your life experience is intense and profound, and is requiring much improvisation. It is a creative and exciting process your are all following, even if you grumble here and then. It is demanding a lot and is giving a lot.

On this tweet My comment can be brief. It illustrates in fact you indeed should have confidence in life, in your destination and in the laws of life.

In a special way it is always all right.

If you really could absorb the essence of this tweet, you would realize as I indicated in earlier blogs, the difficulties, the confrontations and crises of your life are the biggest moments of (un)learning. It’s there where you are going bare, are going flat, are undergoing rigorous change, are developing new values​​, are getting new insights, are making really spiritual steps.

And of course you do want to avoid these situations at all costs, because the ego prefers pleasure and convenience. But life forces you to do so.

“Often a person meets his destiny on the road he tried to avoid”
  
So the moral of this tweet is: live, let go, take it here and now as a guide, and live without fear and worry and despair. For what you anxious love to have is not always the best and what you love to avoid is a real shaking experience, necessarily and functional.
And your “My God” is helping with everything.

My blessings to you all

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