The human soul is indestructible (Alice Miller, 5)

For the human soul is virtually indestructible, and its ability to rise from the ashes remains as long as the body draws breath (Alice Miller)

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I wanted you to keep this saying by Alice Miller till the end. Indeed, did the Christ not keep the best wine till the end?

And God personally ensures that even after the death of the body the human soul will be more indestructible than ever.

But the subject of consideration that Alice Miller makes is thus.

There is an incredibly beautiful power in man, which will always prevail, which is indestructible, is stronger than earthly life, often more powerful emerging from the misery and grief of earthly life than before.

Oh, the servants of God sing of the power of God expressed in the human soul. Indestructible blessing, talent for man, pure power, triumphant eternity, spiritual jewel, saviour of man, loving blessing, cherisher of sorrow, keeper of secrets, precious diamond polished on the anvil of earthly suffering.

Soul of man, be blessed.
May Alice Miller be blessed.

My blessings to you all

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Children are messengers of happiness and grief (Alice Miller, 4)

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My son, like guardian angels are messengers of the spiritual world, so is the hidden child in man the messenger of what has been of happiness and sorrow. And as guardian angels are always messengers of healing, even though the message is sometimes painful, in the same way the child in man is also a messenger of healing, even though it is painful. The truth will set you free.

And the more the child in man is seen and cherished and cared for and welcomed and the more man is talking to that child and the more the child is listened to by that person, the closer healing will be nearby.

And know that when an adult talks to a child in his surroundings, that automatically the hidden and perhaps oppressed child from within will waken up and gets closer to the heart and becomes more likely to be discovered.

Oh child in the surroundings, what a blessing can you be for the grown up man!

Oh man, associate with children, even every now and then!

The child in every man is blessed.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all, My children

 

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Sorrow from the past may influence the future (Alice Miller, 3)

“The more we idealized the past, however, and refuse to acknowledge our childhood sufferings, the more we pass them on unconsciously to the next generation.” *

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The child in man’s life is enormously manifest in the present and determines much of behaviour, especially the unconscious behaviour. And in big decisions, in extreme difficulties and at important moments, the child determines in man more than the reasonable person realizes.

And this child in man is, as Alice Miller has described, in fact always violated, treated unfairly, disappointed in the adults or infected by a parent.

And this mistreated child determines in fact the decisions of man, so to speak more than man realizes. For example, some adults never acquire a partner, or end up in a life of addictions or depression,  precisely by this hidden suffering child in them. And only if man accepts and feels compassion for this suffering child, one can go on. And what most people do is draw a veil over their childhood. And thus continue to carry a greater burden lifelong , with more influence on their lives than necessary.

And God does not argue to send everybody in therapy. A good therapy may lead man to his own abused child. But a nice encounter, a clear dream, a open-minded person, an insight, intense prayers or a deep relationship with God may be supportive as well. Man may start to love  that little hidden child in the inner self. And many things can be solved then and healed.

Alice Miller may be blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Alice Miller, For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence

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Addiction is a plight that must be understood (Alice Miller,2)

“What is addiction, really? It is a sign, a signal, a symptom of distress. It is a language that tells us about a plight that must be understood.” Alice Miller*

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This is indeed what God is seeing as well. The suffering, the despair, the disappointment, the worries, the grief that hide behind addictions. And often, not always, it is the cause of addictions. Therefore, mankind and its addictions are considered by the spiritual world with love and without judgment.

Addictions are severely condemned by mankind and are indeed corrupt and streets coming to a dead end. But God sees the backgrounds and sees what eventually will lead to life experience and insight. God does not even judge the behaviour, not even the effects of addictions, not even the addict himself. It is useless and leads to nothing. But understanding of the hidden causes, understanding of the inability of the addicted and loving care of these men in need are cherished by God.

Alice Miller has made her life work on this subject and has done so with great wisdom, much love and much psychological knowledge. Her work is a blessing for mankind.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Breaking Down the Wall of Silence: The Liberating Experience of Facing Painful Truth

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Nobody is born evil (Alice Miller, 1)

Let me please ask You.
Recently I have heard stories about a derailed man who had experienced terrible things in his childhood, great sorrow and who was hurt by "bad" parents. And then Alice Miller *came into my mind. Would You like to comment on this quote?

Let's take this quote from Alice Miller as a starting point.

How can a loving God not agree with this?
Hasn’t been the compassion and love and understanding for humankind the subject of many blogs, and as well the understanding for those who commit terrible deeds?

Alice Miller was in her earthly life very close to her God so in this way she was capable of describing thoroughly and truthfully what a child experiences in his youth. Every child. I say emphatically: every child. Giving birth out of the safe womb, the child will lead a life of his own. And every child will be burdened even by the best parents with disappointment and insult.

Let alone parents who are unable to raise a child. One of the biggest taboos of mankind is that the environment may not interfere with how poor, immature and unsuitable parents raise their child as if the child is their property.

And society does not really concern only when it's too late.

And thus derailment, hurt, sadness, proliferation of traits, addictions and malignant behaviour will occur. Due to derailed upbringing. And the child will pay the bill. And yet, not all behaviour can be traced to education. Aren’t there great men who have turned evil in their youth to goodness? But those are strong people, and most people are not strong enough.

Woe to the children who are the property of ignorant and bad parents.

Woe to the parents who so much force their children into a derailed life of sorrow and addiction.
Woe to the environment that has let this happen and who will always pay the price. This is the circle around. For never is one person only guilty, even not in the greatest crimes.

Therefore, the compassion of God with derailed men is bigger than Its love for righteous men. Because they have often received a lot in their youth, what they just have to share.

With love is the derailed person blessed.
Alice Miller is blessed.

 My blessings to you all

 
*Alice Miller, Drama of the gifted, Thou shalt not be aware

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