Tuesday 30 May 2017

Nobody is born evil (Alice Miller, 1)


Let me please ask You.
Recently I have heard stories about a derailed man who had experienced terrible things in his childhood, great sorrow and who was hurt by "bad" parents. And then Alice Miller *came into my mind. Would You like to comment on this quote?

Let's take this quote from Alice Miller as a starting point.
How can a loving God not agree with this?
Hasn’t been the compassion and love and understanding for humankind the subject of many blogs, and as well the understanding for those who commit terrible deeds?

Alice Miller was in her earthly life very close to her God so in this way she was capable of describing thoroughly and truthfully what a child experiences in his youth. Every child. I say emphatically: every child. Giving birth out of the safe womb, the child will lead a life of his own. And every child will be burdened even by the best parents with disappointment and insult.

Let alone parents who are unable to raise a child. One of the biggest taboos of mankind is that the environment may not interfere with how poor, immature and unsuitable parents raise their child as if the child is their property.
And society does not really concern only when it's too late.

And thus derailment, hurt, sadness, proliferation of traits, addictions and malignant behaviour will occur. Due to derailed upbringing. And the child will pay the bill. And yet, not all behaviour can be traced to education. Aren’t there great men who have turned evil in their youth to goodness? But those are strong people, and most people are not strong enough.

Woe to the children who are the property of ignorant and bad parents.
Woe to the parents who so much force their children into a derailed life of sorrow and addiction.
Woe to the environment that has let this happen and who will always pay the price. This is the circle around. For never is one person only guilty, even not in the greatest crimes.

Therefore, the compassion of God with derailed men is bigger than Its love for righteous men. Because they have often received a lot in their youth, what they just have to share.
With love is the derailed person blessed.
Alice Miller is blessed.

 My blessings to you all
 
*Alice Miller, Drama of the gifted, Thou shalt not be aware

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