Children are messengers of happiness and grief (Alice Miller, 4)

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My son, like guardian angels are messengers of the spiritual world, so is the hidden child in man the messenger of what has been of happiness and sorrow. And as guardian angels are always messengers of healing, even though the message is sometimes painful, in the same way the child in man is also a messenger of healing, even though it is painful. The truth will set you free.

And the more the child in man is seen and cherished and cared for and welcomed and the more man is talking to that child and the more the child is listened to by that person, the closer healing will be nearby.

And know that when an adult talks to a child in his surroundings, that automatically the hidden and perhaps oppressed child from within will waken up and gets closer to the heart and becomes more likely to be discovered.

Oh child in the surroundings, what a blessing can you be for the grown up man!

Oh man, associate with children, even every now and then!

The child in every man is blessed.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all, My children

 

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Sorrow from the past may influence the future (Alice Miller, 3)

“The more we idealized the past, however, and refuse to acknowledge our childhood sufferings, the more we pass them on unconsciously to the next generation.” *

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The child in man’s life is enormously manifest in the present and determines much of behaviour, especially the unconscious behaviour. And in big decisions, in extreme difficulties and at important moments, the child determines in man more than the reasonable person realizes.

And this child in man is, as Alice Miller has described, in fact always violated, treated unfairly, disappointed in the adults or infected by a parent.

And this mistreated child determines in fact the decisions of man, so to speak more than man realizes. For example, some adults never acquire a partner, or end up in a life of addictions or depression,  precisely by this hidden suffering child in them. And only if man accepts and feels compassion for this suffering child, one can go on. And what most people do is draw a veil over their childhood. And thus continue to carry a greater burden lifelong , with more influence on their lives than necessary.

And God does not argue to send everybody in therapy. A good therapy may lead man to his own abused child. But a nice encounter, a clear dream, a open-minded person, an insight, intense prayers or a deep relationship with God may be supportive as well. Man may start to love  that little hidden child in the inner self. And many things can be solved then and healed.

Alice Miller may be blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Alice Miller, For Your Own Good: Hidden Cruelty in Child-Rearing and the Roots of Violence

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Addiction is a plight that must be understood (Alice Miller,2)

“What is addiction, really? It is a sign, a signal, a symptom of distress. It is a language that tells us about a plight that must be understood.” Alice Miller*

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This is indeed what God is seeing as well. The suffering, the despair, the disappointment, the worries, the grief that hide behind addictions. And often, not always, it is the cause of addictions. Therefore, mankind and its addictions are considered by the spiritual world with love and without judgment.

Addictions are severely condemned by mankind and are indeed corrupt and streets coming to a dead end. But God sees the backgrounds and sees what eventually will lead to life experience and insight. God does not even judge the behaviour, not even the effects of addictions, not even the addict himself. It is useless and leads to nothing. But understanding of the hidden causes, understanding of the inability of the addicted and loving care of these men in need are cherished by God.

Alice Miller has made her life work on this subject and has done so with great wisdom, much love and much psychological knowledge. Her work is a blessing for mankind.

Alice Miller is blessed.

My blessings to you all

 
*Breaking Down the Wall of Silence: The Liberating Experience of Facing Painful Truth

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Pentecost, another blessing from eternity

My God, I have had such a great experience, the love of the spiritual world, the  emotion about how we are helped, my heart filled with Your love, the atmosphere between people, it seems around Pentecost as if more love and contact is possible between men.

Pentecost is one of the highlights of Christian society. Everyone is greatly blessed by the Mother God, even men who do not know what Pentecost is meaning. You all are hit in the heart, it is a big happening and many people feel it.

You are feeling it and many with you. Even though many people have stopped going to church, God continues to come with Its Blessings and the greatest is the blessing of Pentecost. A period of days of intense blessing that descend on all of you especially on Sunday and with great strength.

The Mother's Blessing. The love of God. Your heart filled with pure energy of compassion and love. Feel blessed. Be blessed. You are blessed.

 
My blessings to you all

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Nobody is born evil (Alice Miller, 1)

Let me please ask You.
Recently I have heard stories about a derailed man who had experienced terrible things in his childhood, great sorrow and who was hurt by "bad" parents. And then Alice Miller *came into my mind. Would You like to comment on this quote?

Let's take this quote from Alice Miller as a starting point.

How can a loving God not agree with this?
Hasn’t been the compassion and love and understanding for humankind the subject of many blogs, and as well the understanding for those who commit terrible deeds?

Alice Miller was in her earthly life very close to her God so in this way she was capable of describing thoroughly and truthfully what a child experiences in his youth. Every child. I say emphatically: every child. Giving birth out of the safe womb, the child will lead a life of his own. And every child will be burdened even by the best parents with disappointment and insult.

Let alone parents who are unable to raise a child. One of the biggest taboos of mankind is that the environment may not interfere with how poor, immature and unsuitable parents raise their child as if the child is their property.

And society does not really concern only when it's too late.

And thus derailment, hurt, sadness, proliferation of traits, addictions and malignant behaviour will occur. Due to derailed upbringing. And the child will pay the bill. And yet, not all behaviour can be traced to education. Aren’t there great men who have turned evil in their youth to goodness? But those are strong people, and most people are not strong enough.

Woe to the children who are the property of ignorant and bad parents.

Woe to the parents who so much force their children into a derailed life of sorrow and addiction.
Woe to the environment that has let this happen and who will always pay the price. This is the circle around. For never is one person only guilty, even not in the greatest crimes.

Therefore, the compassion of God with derailed men is bigger than Its love for righteous men. Because they have often received a lot in their youth, what they just have to share.

With love is the derailed person blessed.
Alice Miller is blessed.

 My blessings to you all

 
*Alice Miller, Drama of the gifted, Thou shalt not be aware

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Will it ever be done for man and the ape on the earth? (Ape of God, 5)

My son, not for man and not for the ape, and not for the earth.
But I think you mean to ask, "Will it ever be done with hell on earth, with the suffering, the sorrow, the pain and the activities of the devil?" That will be done once.
For the evolution of the earth will, according to the schedule of the cosmos and according to the laws of God, ultimately lead to a planet of Light and Love*. I say it in capital letters, because it will be a planet with capitals, where spiritual beings abides, where the laws of God are realized and everyone lives to those laws.

It is actually the old promise of a new heaven and a new earth, of the separation of the good and the bad, of an eternal state of heavenly happiness realized on the material earth.

Only Christ does not descend into a cloud and will not destroy the devil. That is a very unilateral and primitive version of a real future, because the Christ consciousness will then be realized on earth. So to speak man on earth will then be united with his Spark of god. And separating the good and bad will just mean that spiritual beings can not abide on earth under a certain level of perfectness because the energy level on earth will be too high.

But not before millions of years, the Earth is still in its early stages. So God gives some time, please accept mankind in her very steady but in your eyes slow development. Of course man is impatient, but God is not. Study your history, just a hundred thousand years ago you walked in bear sheets. Just 2000 years ago, you have been able to receive the Christ, just 500 years ago science took worldwide its flight, just 30 years ago, you made the first steps to one global feeling through the possibilities of the internet.

You have all the time in the world.

God's mills go slowly, the ways of evolution will lead you and mother nature, the animals and the plant world to higher vibration levels. And after a very long time, the vibration level of the planet earth has become so high that lower energies will be gone and the ape of God out of job. Ultimately the devil may wonder what his concerns are on earth. And earth bound as he is, he will in his unemployment wonder whether he can not walk another way. The fallen angel can return to the Divine House or otherwise the apes of God await total destruction and there will never be heard of them again. But cosmic experience indicates that in the end they often return to their ranks.
 
My blessings to you all

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Urantiabook, p. 621

How do I come closer to You (Ape of God, 4)

The old story of religions that you have to choose between good and evil, between the narrow road and the wide road, between God and the devil, is not the solution. I do not think that’s appropriate now.

Everything is all right what a man does because he wants it, because he chooses it, because it’s on his way, because he cannot do anything else. And the consequences of his actions will be felt automatically, sometimes quite quickly visible. So whether it was good or bad, bad for his inner self or not, whether he is letting another person down or not, everything will become clear sooner or later.

So the advice is not that man must choose between good and evil or between God and the devil, because these are the traditional suggestions of religions.  Even a bit old fashioned. In this time of freedom and education and healthy individualism, the spiritual world stimulates a third way. God's advice is that man must do what his heart imparts to him, what he likes, what he thinks to be attractive, what is fascinating him, for there is his way, there his life will be fulfilled, there his destiny will be visible, there is he going to make his mistakes, there he is going to acquire experience, there his big life insights will come true, nowhere else. Too many people in early days have been forcedly influenced by norms and values from ruling morals, and so creating a lot of sorrow, repressing many talent and abolishing many life experiences.

The third way is the way of the heart, even if the heart draws into wrong directions and inclinations. Everything eventually becomes clear because everything is done entirely in a system of God's laws. So how can it go wrong in the long run? Because in evil deeds the consequences are included which lead to insight and change and eventually to the right choices. Evil is not for the sake of evil but for the sake of the good.

Therefore, today, one chooses no longer between good and evil but for the own individual heart. And that is all right. In this way one comes closer to God than by forced and unnatural goodness.

My blessings to you all

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